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Grief and loss

Counselling for separation, divorce and relationship loss

When a relationship ends, you lose more than a person. That is grief, even though nobody has died.

You can lose a home, a routine, shared friends, time with your children, and the future you had pictured together.

Separation and divorce often bring conflicting feelings at the same time: sadness, anger, relief, guilt, fear about what comes next. It can be hard to grieve someone who is still alive, especially if you still see them or share the care of children.

Estrangement from a family member, or the end of a close friendship, can hurt in the same way.

How counselling can help

  • Making sense of what has happened and how you feel about it
  • Grieving the relationship and the future you expected
  • Working through anger, guilt, rejection or betrayal
  • Rebuilding confidence and a sense of who you are on your own
  • Finding a steadier way to manage ongoing contact

Whatever the circumstances of the ending, you can talk about it here without judgement.

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Not all loss is bereavement, but all loss can bring grief.